I suffered all the agonies of a man bound to a wife with one is seemed temperate and unchaste .

我受尽了一个男人的痛苦，妻子既 不温和又 不 贞洁。

And indeed if I had stayed unchaste I would have gotten burned out .

的确，如果我保持 无 节操的，我会失去 兴趣。

In other words turtle and wife must be unchaste .

也就是说，“龟”的老婆一定是 不 贞洁的。

If she dared to violate the rules in the patriarchal society she would be regarded as an unchaste and vicious woman .

如果违背父权制社会的 伦理 法权， 又势必会 沦为 不贞 或 堕落 的 形象。